Sunday, 4 May 2014

How To: Be Positive When The Voices In Your Head Get A Hold

You need to stop nagging yourself. If you let that little voice in your head tell you you’re not good enough, he will win. You’ll never get anywhere if you believe him. (I refer to the voice inside my head as a male because when I argue with it, it’s better than saying I argued with myself!) It is hard to do, it took me years to come around to the positive way of thinking but you can get there. Whether you start today, tomorrow or have tried in the past: the point of a trial is that you don’t give up. If you didn’t try you’d have nothing to give up from. If you try and don’t succeed: why is it you stop there? You’re trying for a reason. No matter what it is, are you going to give up after one attempt? Is it worth that little to you?

You might not be getting seen by the people you want to notice you yet. I know only too well about this one. You’ve just got to keep on persevering and one day they will. It may seem like forever you’re waiting to be noticed but I can promise you, the RIGHT people RIGHT now already have their eyes on you. It may not be who you want it to be at the moment, but the kaleidoscope of your life fixes on the RIGHT people at the RIGHT time.

Trying to be noticed by someone because you fancy them is another one of these. The sun rises in  the east and it will shine on you when the time is RIGHT. If it shines when you are in their foresight than that’s awesome! Celebrate your love and be happy!

Sometimes, though the sun shines on the wrong side of you, which was very much the case during my school and uni careers. It’s hard. It sucks. Most of the time you just end up with wounded pride and that little voice returns saying ‘You’re not good enough.’

Now’s the time to fight back. Tell him that you know different, and believe it. You’re not born onto this earth for no reason. You’re not born to cower away in the corner. You were born to stand up and be proud. Of who you are. Of everything you’ve accomplished.
Hope this helps,


  1. Every life has a purpose and everyday is a new one, continue to battle on and always be happy :D thanks for this wonderful message Steph it truly is awesometing :) xxx

  2. Thank you for reading Sam! xx